Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but if your man thinks you are ugly, it is a huge red flag in the relationship.
It is hard to know if your partner is really into you, but if he thinks you are ugly, it is a sign he doesn’t love you as much as you thought he did.
There are different times of people; however, judging people based on their looks is a bit shallow. If someone likes you, they should love you for who you are inside and out.
It is flattering when your boyfriend tells you you are pretty, and it hurts if your boyfriend thinks you are ugly. It can also erode your self-confidence.
There are several signs he thinks you are ugly. 11 of them include
1. He avoids taking pictures with you
If your partner is always dodging the camera or doesn’t want to take pictures with you, it could be a sign that they’re not feeling proud to be seen with you. While not everyone is comfortable with taking pictures, if your partner is actively avoiding being in photos with you, it could be a sign that they’re not feeling attracted to you.
2. He doesn’t share your picture or pictures of the two of you together
He is a regular on social media and shares pictures of himself yet he has never shared your picture or pictures of the two of you together on his social media handles. There could be a number of reasons why he does that but one of the reasons could be because he thinks you aren’t pretty and he is not proud of you.
3. He doesn’t compliment you
While it’s not necessary for your partner to shower you with compliments all the time, it is important for them to acknowledge your efforts to look good for them. If your partner never tells you that you look beautiful or sexy, it could be a sign that they’re not feeling attracted to you.
4. He is reluctant to be seen with you in public
A boyfriend who thinks his girlfriend is pretty and is proud of her will spare no second in showing her off. He will take every opportunity to be seen with her publicly. He will take her to outings, parties, strolls and so on. But when it seems he shies away from going out with you to events, it could possibly mean he doesn’t want to be seen with you because he isn’t proud of your looks. If your boyfriend behaves in this manner, it probably means he thinks you are ugly.
5. He Avoids Eye Contact With You
A guy who thinks you are ugly will avoid eye contact with you because your overall appearance makes him uncomfortable.
Pay attention if he makes no eye contact during conversation or seems bored and uninterested when you talk.
Good communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship. If you feel he’s not engaged, it could signal he’s not attracted.
Avoiding eye contact also means he does not want to connect with you because he thinks you are less attractive.
6. He tries to tell you how to dress and groom yourself
He always tells you what to wear, the hairstyle to do and how much makeup to wear. And if you refuse, he insists and gets angry. All of these is an attempt to make you look in a way he thinks conceals his perceived ugliness of you. For example, he insists you put on makeup if you guys have to go out together or meet with friends and he seems uncomfortable around friends if you aren’t looking the way he wants you to look.
7. He always talks about other women’s looks
Another red flag to look out for is if your partner is always commenting on other women’s looks. While it’s natural to find other people attractive, if your partner is constantly talking about how hot someone else is, it could be a sign that they’re not feeling satisfied with your appearance. Pay attention to how often your partner talks about other women’s looks and try to have an open conversation with them if it’s bothering you.
8. He doesn’t introduce you to his friends
Another red flag to look out for is if your partner doesn’t want to introduce you to their friends. While there could be other reasons for this (such as wanting to keep your relationship private), if your partner is actively avoiding introducing you to their friends, it could be a sign that they’re not feeling proud to be seen with you.
9. He Teases You
Couples tease and make fun of each other; it is all part of dating and connecting.
However, if your boyfriend teases you about your looks more than he compliments you, he thinks you are ugly.
For instance, if your boyfriend always teases you about your looks all the time, it could mean he finds something wrong with you.
For example, if he always comments about your nose or ears and teases you about them all the time, he thinks you are ugly.
10. He says nothing or laughs when you are being teased
Whenever his friend or friends tease you saying you are ugly, he doesn’t come to your defence and joins them to tease you or laugh at you. Well, that could be because he thinks you are ugly too. For example, he laughs or teases you along with his friends that your mouth is long.
11. No Physical Affection
If your partner thinks you are ugly, he will not be physically intimate with you. He will make excuses when you want to be physically intimate with him.
It is possible to love someone and not be s3xually attracted to them. So, if your boyfriend is no longer physically affectionate with you, he could think you are ugly.
For instance, if you recently got a child, you may have gained some weight, and your partner may think you are ugly.
He may no longer want to be intimate with you and will not want to touch you as he did before.
